Reference: http://www.bazmool.com/articles/المرأة-الصالحة-السلفية
A righteous Salafee woman…
– It is not a condition that she has to know the various groups and parties.
– It is not a condition that she has to repeat the statements and phrases of the scholars of the Salaf.
– It is not necessary that she has to know the Jarh (criticism) of so-and-so.
– It is not a condition that she has to know the Salafi scholars.
– It is not a condition that she has to know the current affairs.
– It is not a condition that she has to fast the days of the full moon (i.e. the 13, 14th and 15th of every Islamic month) nor every Monday and Thursday.
– Neither does she have to establish the night prayer every night.
* Rather it is enough for her…
– To be diligent upon the five daily prayers.
– To fast Ramadhan.
– To look after herself and her husband, and take care of her household and her children
– Her house is her kingdom, her husband is her guardian and her children are her flock.
* The Messenger (sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam) only mentioned:
– That she should be affectionate and kindhearted towards her children, guard [the honour] of her husband and also his property.
– She combines this with fulfilling the rights of her Lord.
* Clarification:
The matters which I have mentioned as “it is not a condition… ”
– If she has them in her, it is better. However I have seen Ghuluww (exceeding of limits and exaggeration) by some youth when they seek these characteristics from a woman when they desire to marry her
– I have also seen some women exaggerate when asking about these matters, wanting to delve into them too deeply.
I therefore explained the basis of what should be sought in a woman, that she should be a righteous Salafi woman, without the need for many conditions.
The knowledge that she is actually in need of is what is specific to her femininity and womanhood – because she is a woman.
Any thing more than this, her husband should teach her, and she follows her husband in this – because he is her guardian and the responsibility to guard over her is upon him.
Allah knows best.
المرأة الصالحة السلفية
المرجع: http://www.bazmool.com/articles/المرأة-الصالحة-السلفية
المرأة الصالحة السلفية…
ليس شرطا فيها أن تعرف الجماعات والأحزاب .
ولا يشترط فيها أن تكرر كلام علماء السلف وعباراتهم.
ولا يلزم أن تعرف جرح فلان وفلان .
ولا يشترط فيها أن تعرف المشايخ السلفيين.
ولا يشترط أن تعلم ما يدور على الساحة .
ولا يشترط أن تصوم الأيام البيض وكل اثنين وخميس ولا أن تقوم الليل يومياً.
يكفي أن تكون محافظة على الصلوات الخمس وصيام رمضان وأن تحفظ نفسهاوزوجها وتعتني ببيتها وولدها.
وأن يكون بيتها مملكتها، وزوجها أميرها، وأولادها رعيتها.
لم يذكر الرسول صلى الله عليه وسلم إلا أن تكون :
حنونة على ولدها تحفظ زوجها في ذاته وماله، مع قيامها بحق ربها!
المبالغة تنطع وتجاوز للحد، ماذا تريدون من بنات المسلمين أن يكن؟!
* توضيح *
– ما ذكرته صدرته بأنه ليس بشرط.
– فإن قامت الفتاة بهذا فهو فضل
– ثم رأيت غلوا من بعض الشباب في تطلب هذه المواصفات في الفتاة التي يريد أن يتزوج بها.
– ورأيت غلوا في بعض الفتيات يسألن عن هذه الأمور ويردن التعمق فيها.
– فبينت الأصل فيما ينبغي أن يطلب في المرأة وأنها به امرأة صالحة سلفية فلا يشترط كذا وكذا.
– والعلم الذي تحتاجه المرأة هو ما يخص أنوثتها لأنها امرأة.
وما زاد يعلمه الرجل زوجته وهي تتبعه في ذلك لأنه أميرها والقيم عليها.
والله أعلم
AsSalaamu ‘Alaykum
Alhamdulillaah
Simply excellent article on this recent issue. It is a continuation of the ‘’war’’ against our Deen and particularly KSA.
May Allaah ‘Azawajal protect this country from these soldiers of Shaytaan and guide our leaders. Aameen.
Congratulations and BaarakAllaah feekum.
Walaykum salaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh
JazakaAllah khayr brother Abdullah
May Allah protect the people of Tawheed, and may Allah give success and guidance to the rulers of the Muslim countries.
وبالله التوفيق
اَلسَلامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ
I am very eager to listen to seerah of our final Messenger صلى الله عليه وعلى آله وسلم. I listened to the seerah series before, by Yasir Qadhi. But later, I heard many things about him, so I stopped listening to him. I cannot find such a detailed seerah anywhere else. Brother Abul Abbaas, can you help me by suggesting a seerah series taught by a scholar or student of knowledge.
بارك الله فيك
Walaykum salaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh,
Unfortunately I do not know of a Seerah series in English taught by a scholar, perhpaps we will begin one soon inshaAllah, there are excellent books such as The Sealed Nectar which you can read.
وبالله التوفيق